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Calling children oppositional, disagreeable, or defiant, especially if the behavior is persistent or targeted, is very common at school and at home. While some parents and teachers might wonder why a child would do this or that despite repeated punishments, others may simply give the consequences to change behavior. While a therapist or a parent might mull over the child’s intentions or needs, some pedagogues just give clear and consistent instruction on how to follow the rul

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